(author comment): This book is
all about development and how to arise into a new life that is lived
out of the spiritual being that you are instead of staying stuck in
arrested development as a human being trying to become spiritual. It
helps cure the feeling of going back to the same old ruts. Being awake
to life and the seriousness of living is what this book is all about.
It is about living in the present, being mindful of self and others,
being a sensitive being who is deeply interested in all humans and
connecting to them at deeper levels.
All humans have adopted some form of adaptation and are often
confused about their true identity. Some have no idea of who
they are! It is just part of our human condition
Murture is the answer:
merging with a divine Being who loves all humans unconditionally
and sheds that love onto all. This promise of love is given to
any one of us who has the interest in waking up to receiving it will
be able to- through seeking love.
Your conditioned way of thinking has been learned from all the
situations that you have experienced due to the way you were trained.
In my humble opinion, we have only
begun to understand the true identity of individuals as God sees them.
Murture is living life as though you are climbing a ladder. You
climb up out of kidding yourself about who you are and become real to
yourself and others, using listening without judging. It is
about speaking the truth lovingly. Murture means you have gone back to
your childhood, looked under that hood, and uncovered the pieces that
you hid when you were a kid. It means letting unconditional love break
through into the darkest places of your wounded self to heal and
mature. It is about letting your true self come alive, out of hiding,
and being raised up again without fear, obligation, beguiling, and
negative energy from others. It is about perfecting the perverted
affect of feelings and emotions that are distorted and distressed and
are in need of unconditional love from a perfect Parent! Murture is
about letting the light of understanding enter in to show you the
truth of who is your real parent—a loving being that is neither
male nor female but has the protection of a safe father’s love
and the nurture of a safe mother’s love. Since God is neither
male nor female, but incorporates both in Spirit, only God can fill
you in on who you really are and how that perfect love can rescue you
from the kid-napping of your inner child.
Murture brings out the spiritual nature in us to be nurtured by God.
The integration of becoming whole and overcoming past influences of
trauma, chronic stress, or other conditioning is a process.
Murture opens up an inner knowing that you are loved
unconditionally, so it affords you the opportunity to merge and be one
with that Perfect Love.
There is no dependency on anyone or anything else so you know you do
not (nor could you) have to be perfect to be lovable. When you
continue to grow with murture, you begin to feel free to express your
own reality in loving and respectful ways.
use STEPS model in my therapeutic counseling to help people
stay in balance while uncovering their real identity and learning to
live in a reality that is true to them. These are the five aspects
that need perfect balance. When you are stable and grounded in perfect
love, you are conscious to check in and see if you are in balance and
living from a centered position. Journaling and taking time to reflect
is essential to keep the rhythm of this alignment. If old habits
appear, quickly find the imbalanced places and recharge those places
that have been neglected. Problems are now only opportunities for
solutions that come easily as trust is placed in Divine Love connected
to the balanced center of you.
five aspects that need perfect balance. Use them to check in with
is for spiritual leadership
You are now guided by positive spiritual energy that helps you avoid
old traps and suffering from the ups and downs of anxiety and
depression. Thoughts are ordered and centered. It is easy to focus
with new settings on love and available help 24/7. The inner spirit of
you is attuned to the one that aligns with the power greater than you.
is for thought processes
Thoughts are clear and clean. There is a mind that works in confidence
to bring new wisdom, and the old clutter or confused head is no longer
present. Your thoughts align with the steps you need to take, and
decision-making is certain as it is based on trust in God.
is for emotional wellness
Emotions are stable and feel centered. Even when circumstances happen
that are upsetting in any way, a new awareness kicks in to tell you
that things will work out for good. The old ways of spinning
confusion, roller-coaster rides, or any other crazy feelings are
nonexistent. You are living in an awakening that stays present in the
moment and does not trigger you into past traumas.
is for physical living
All things that are connected to your physical needs are healthier.
There is a sense of feeling more energy and less disease. Physical
needs are met in new ways, including finances and all things that
pertain to the material world. In general, you feel in good condition
in mind, body, and spirit as you navigate the physical world.
is for social relationships
You are very good at setting boundaries. You release old resentments
and judgments, as you know they are poison to you. Relationships are
more harmonious as you realize there is no need to prove or defend
yourself. You live in a reality that is truthful and honest, and you
take responsibility for treating self and others well. You have no
need to compare yourself to anyone else to feed the old ego. You are
able to share to be known and give love to others.
This is exactly what is unique about murture.
Murture simply is an approach free of any effort to try to get
you--the reader--to believe or invest into what I, Susan--the
author--believe, but rather to uncover your true self so you
can sense truth from the core of your own being. For the most
part, I do not instruct my clients what to do. Rather, I empower
them with the power of the Creator of the universe so they
can personally relate and connect to their own inner power. The
desired outcome is for each individual to know and understand that God
will speak directly to them in their spirit if they take the time to
The inner being of each of us knows truth at the core level.
The problem is that most of us suffer from a damaged idea of our self,
or we contain a walled-off core. Think of that inner core as made up
of parts of your wounds from childhood. The wounded child acts out or
in whenever he/she is hurt, but it is out of a childish way. The wound
happened in childhood. Therefore, it is stuck in brain memory deep
down in the center of that immature brain perfectly intact with the
memory of how it felt to be hurt, recorded according to the childish
perspective. Layered over that wounded child is an adaptation that was
set up at the time to protect the wounded child in order to survive
the pain. That pain is buried deep in the brain’s center. It walls off
much of the pain because it is little and dark in the understanding
due to lack of being able to express feelings or be heard. Defense
mechanisms work great when we are kids. As adults, their default
settings go to reactive feelings that trigger anger, sadness, or some
kind of shut down right out of the “animal brain” that instinctually
senses the need to protect when triggered to perceive danger.
This causes a need to assign blame or shift it from one person to
another. When we are under this immature influence, we are still
trapped in fear mindsets that bring in negative energy causing a chain
reaction with the other person we are trying to relate to at the time.
Many times both people go offline from the present to a “somewhere
back in time” place. They begin swimming in a toxic sea, full of
unresolved issues that are way out of balance. The trapped fear
appears to “make you” feel as though you are literally being
suffocated. Murture sets you free from these old patterns. It raises
awareness to stay “present with your present self” in order to remain
stable enough to get in touch with the reality of that self in the
moment. Connecting to your true self through feelings of love for your
inner being helps discern truth from inside out. You are merged with
truth. That merger gives the constant nurture to set you free to know
you are loved. The reactive triggers are still felt but the ability to
self-regulate them and stay centered keeps you online to what is
happening at the time without the added past flooding of old feelings.
As you feel loved and nurtured in your current new conditioning, the
old pain heals and the “need to defend or offend” layers melt down,
exposing more and more of your divine essence. Under the influence of
love, more light comes in to warm up the true self to shine out
without fear of vulnerability. The need to hide is gone because being
awake is much more joyous and lighthearted.
There is no need to be a victim or a
villain. There is only a need to find victory over the past so it can
be left behind.
Discovering the presence of God within and getting out of living in
any dual-thinking patterns is more than liberating. It is like coming
home to a place that is real and peaceful. There is a sense of knowing
that invites the best to keep unfolding as you stay in spiritual
awareness. New avenues of creativity awaken that match the desires and
dreams you have had for a long time. It seems like favor is all around
as doors open to bless you in ways you would not have been able to
open by yourself. It is the feeling of only just beginning to
really live. You will declare, “Let there be more enlightenment!”
Peace, harmony, and the feeling of permanent grace for all others is
the theme of each new day as enlightened understandings show the way
to walk that out with pure motivation and willingness. When you live
in a way where grace is in place all the time, you are definitely
living out of the Godhead. This just means that since God is
omniscient, you are tapping into the oneness with the Knower of all
things. This relationship happens spirit to spirit and is as real as
if God were speaking directly to you wherever you are because He is
also omnipresent—everywhere at all times in everything. Grace is also
empowering since you know the omnipotence of God. The all-powerful
Protector is looking out for you, so you can relax and not worry.
There is nothing to fear when His grace shields you.
Knowing all this allows you
not to want to take matters in your
own hands and try to “fix” things. You trust
that God has it in control, and it will be done according to the best
plan for you (better than you could hope or imagine). You can calm the
anxious fears that used to give you all kinds of dis-ease (anxiety and
depression) within your inner self. Resting and relaxing without
anxiety is the peace that passes all understanding and calms
your nervous system. Living in bliss over instability leads to
regulated moods that produce more peaceful living, rule out doubt, and
clear the mountains of shadows that have been influencing you in
negative and darkened ways. Judgment of others no longer clouds your
that once controlled you out of negativity, cynicism, and faultfinding
are reset to a new internal setting of favor, both in view of others
and self. The ultimate desired achievement is to flourish in
a true belief with personal connection to God’s goodness
Murture is a system that can get you on a path of healing and
wholeness and will keep you focused on that goal. When you get off
focus, this resource has ideas, tools and strategies to help keep your
steps in balance and focused on that goal without getting distracted
by other humans who are also in need of healing and wholeness.
The contents of my book shows how to go through the process of
learning to receive unconditional love from a Power Greater than
yourself that aids you in the journey to wholeness in your true
identity. When a human depends on others or any external conditions,
they are at risk for detours off their own path to destiny. Think of
it as a great guide to do some digging to uncover your real
self and let God heal the parts that are blocking or keeping you from
being open and operating out of your best self. As you continue to be
open and comfortable in the REAL you without the masks, you will grow
and develop in new ways that transcend your previous ways of living.
These new ways will lift off the heaviness of depressing thoughts and
anxious ways of behaving to handle or cope with life. The old ways
will be replaced with calm and peaceful methods and behaviors that
allow you to live in balance. This stability will be easily maintained
and keep you on the Path of Complete Wellness, mind, body, and spirit,
as you continue your Journey on the Road of Life.
Comments below are from Joe Beaumont and are posted on Amazon:
subject matter of "MURTURE" has me enticed to digest this resource
tool. Anderson has a tremendous wealth of life and professional
experience which she has drawn upon to benefit her own life and that
of her clients for positive betterment. Now, with the release of her
work, "MURTURE" everyone can enjoy her counseling insight. Having the
benefit of an early overview of this publication, I am confident that
application of her guidance in this book will help the reader
mature/nurture in their life journey--finding balance and tranquility
in abundance--and ultimately, to enjoy a thriving relationship with
one's self, with God and with others."